Divorce
As a child, I experienced a childhood stressor that seems to go unnoticed. Divorce had a substantial impact on my psychosocial development as a young child. When looking at the children around me, I felt different because my parents were not together. I thought that my family was abnormal because my father lived in another state. I was reluctant to invite friends over my house because I thought they would view me negatively once they saw that I lived with my mother and grandmother. There would be times when I wanted my father to be physically present, but he could not.
The resource that helped me to overcome this stressor was my extended family. My uncle, aunts, and grandmother would help by taking me to and from school. They also helped me complete homework assignments. My uncle would step up and take me to father/daughter events at my school. What helped me the most was the conversations I had with my mom and dad. They encouraged me, showed me love, and assured me that my family was not weird. My dad visited me as often as he could. He even surprised me at school and all my friends saw that I had a father too! Although divorce is not the ideal situation for any child, family can help to overcome it.
Hunger
There are many children who experience stress because of hunger. In Africa, many children suffer from malnutrition and have died. It is obvious that starvation affects the bisocial development of children. The immune system is weakened and body growth is limited. However, malnutrition affects cognitive development as well. "Abraham Maslow suggested that for students to have energy for learning, their basic personal needs must be met" (Jones & Jones, 2004, p. 39). UNICEF is one organization that is making sure that the basic need of nutrition is being met in Africa. Not only do they provide food, but the organization also adds essential vitamins and minerals to the food. By fortifying foods, many illnesses and defects have been reduced.
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Reference
Jones, V. & Jones, L. (2004). Comprehensive classroom management (7th ed.). Boston, MA: Allyn and Bacon.